Man has through the decades performed feats of genius, physical dexterity, resourcefulness and endurance. We’ve climbed probably the highest mountains, sent probes into deep space, as well as cured many diseases. Every day, males break their back performing 60-hour weeks, doing physical or monotonous work to generate some disposable income. We practice languages, train in musical instruments, as well as head to the gym when there’s a spare moment. Why do we do all of these things? to be able to get women. All the things we do to better ourselves or prove ourselves comes right down to the point we want getting laid more. Heck, Einstein likely found the theory of special relativity since he wanted to impress the hot woman across the street.
OK, so this’s an exaggeration, but on the whole, males are always trying to better themselves within the eyes of females. Thanks to countless films, books, media and cultural influences, we’re raised to believe women are something special within an intrinsic worth without truly having done something to make it. We sense we have to perform whether we are to be successful with females.
On the contrary, it is this view that inevitably tends to make it hard for us to pick up girls. Girls are looking for a confident man, who is happy in his skin and proud of the achievements of his. He knows where he is going, and he’s in no requirement of the social confidence or perhaps proof boost a woman is able to give him.
A man can work all the life of his, accumulate wealth, prestige and life experience, however, if confronted by a woman with an adorable smile, he suddenly doubts whether he’s worthy of her. It’s ridiculous – what has she carried out to make this respect?
The trick to being more successful with girls is understanding that you do not have to prove yourself to them – the only person you are responsible to is yourself. When you realize it is the girl’s duty to prove she is worthy of YOUR respect, you will gain HERS.